proving im not crazy, and that theres a similarity in her work with my work, why is it so hard for people to understand that even tho immitation is the best form of flattery, this is not cool, if it was just one picture is okay, but more than 3? c’mon.
I HATE, i mean I FUCKING HATE the fact that there’s people without personality and such that try to copy your idea of the picture you took and they make it so obvious, but you know what? i know I do it tons times better than you and you flatter me by the idea that you want or try to be like me cause you never will, idiot; get a fucking personality, they are almost free this days and fuck off. :) thanks.
ive become a facebook games addict.
such as:
farmville
fishville
cafe world
roller coaster kingdom
pet society
wtf is wrong with me?
i need to get a life, seriously (:
but meanwhile I shall have fun playing.
So. Original plan: collect some data, make a totally sweet-ass visualization of it, print it, frame it, give it to Heather on our wedding day. Nice, right?
As ever, it didn’t quite work out.
For one: Illustrator is really hard. This looks nothing like it does in my head. Had to make a lot of compromises. Two: I didn’t finish it in time. Partially related to the previous point, partially related to me not having this idea far enough in advance (about 3 days). Three: No privacy while Heather is at home! And she took a day off work during those 3 days! Making my deadline effectively 2 days! Having never even used Illustrator! Without even owning a copy of Illustrator!
So. Yeah.
Regardless, I kind of like how it turned out. I had a much better idea in mind (two, actually) for the timeline portion, but I wasn’t able to get a good enough grasp on Illustrator to make it happen (see point one).
Now I have a year before our first anniversary to get better at Illustrator and make a way better version depicting our first year together.
Click to see it big, by the way.
this is the sweetest thig i’ve ever seen :O
Alex Wasser (via karawest)
lmfao.
Trans 101. A list of words we should all become familiar with. :)
Trans* 101
Note: The use of * here is similar to its use in computing, that is, as a ‘wildcard’. Trans* could refer to trans woman, trans man, transsexual, transgender and so on.
Androgynous/androgyne:A person appearing and/or identifying as neither man nor woman, presenting a gender either mixed or neutral.
Asexual:A person who is not sexually attracted to anyone, or does not have a sexual orientation.
Assignedsex: The sex you were assigned at birth and raised as, synonymous with the term ‘biological sex’, but it may also refer to the sex intersex people were assigned and raised as.
Biocentrism:The belief that a person who is assigned male or female is somehow more ‘real’ and more valid than someone who has become man or woman through hormonal, surgical, and/or cosmetic means.
Biologicalsex: As ‘assigned sex’. Depends on chromosomes, primary sex characteristics, hormone levels and other characteristics. Based on the physical anatomy of your genitalia.
Bisexual:See ‘pansexual/omnisexual’.
Cisgender:A gender identity formed by a match between your biological sex and your subconscious sex. May also be used as a synonym for non-transgender (‘trans’ means across; ‘cis’ means on the same side).
Cissexism:The belief that transsexual genders are less valid than cissexual genders.
Cissexual:”[…] people who are not transsexual and who have only ever experienced their subconscious and physical sexes as being aligned” (Julia Serano)
Cissexual privilege:Experienced by cissexuals as a result of having their fe/maleness deemed authentic, natural and unquestionable by society at large. It allows cissexuals to take their sex embodiment for granted in ways that transsexuals cannot.
Cross-dresser:Someone who wears clothes associated with another gender/sex.
Essentialism:Essentialist positions on gender and sexuality consider these to be fixed traits, while not allowing for variations among individuals or over time.
FTM (Female-to-Male):A transsexual man. Someone assigned female at birth (biological sex) who transitions to live and identify full time as male/man.
Gender:Refers to how you identify yourself, which for trans people is different from their biological bodies.
Gender binary:The culturally defined idea that there are only two genders, male/female or man/woman, and that a person must be strictly gendered as either one or the other, with nothing in between.
Gender cues:What human beings use to try to tell the gender/sex of other human beings, such as hairstyle, clothing, vocal inflection, body shape and facial hair. Cues may vary from culture to culture.
Genderdissonance and gender dysphoria: what’s the difference?Julia Serano describes it succinctly: “[Gender dissonance is a] form of cognitive dissonance experienced by trans people due to a misalignment of their subconscious and physical sexes. Gender dissonance differs somewhat from the psychiatric term ‘gender dysphoria,’ which typically conflates this cognitive dissonance regarding one’s sex with the mental stresses that arise from societal pressure to conform to gender norms.”
Genderdiverse: A person who, for whatever reason, does not conform to the gender-based expectations of society; eg. transgender, transsexual, intersex, genderqueer, cross-dresser, etc. Preferable to ‘gender variant’ because it does not imply a standard normativity.
Genderexpression: How you express gendered behaviour, how you use gender cues; generally how masculine/feminine you are but may or may not be congruent with or influenced by your assigned/biological sex.
Genderidentity: Self-identification. Your inner sense of being male or female or other gendered. Includes the sense of self and one’s image as presented to the world. May or may not have anything to do with masculinity/femininity.
Gender/sexroles: How society expects you to act and behave, based on your gender/sex.
Genderqueer:A gender diverse person whose gender identity is neither male nor female, is between or beyond genders, or is some combination of genders.
Heteronormative:Marginalising, ignoring or persecuting variations from heterosexual orientation.
Intersex:An umbrella term for a variety of conditions in which a person is born with a reproductive or sexual anatomy that doesn’t seem to fit the typical definitions of female or male.
MTF(Male-to-Female): A transsexual woman. Someone assigned male at birth (biological sex) who transitions to live and identify full time as female/woman.
Pansexual/omnisexual:Attracted to “people, not parts”. Used instead of ‘bisexual’ (because ‘bi’ means ‘two’, and there aren‘t two sexes/genders. Indicates the potential to be attracted to anyone regardless of their sex, gender identity, or gender expression.
Passing:In an FTM context, being seen or read as male by others. Some trans people find the term objectionable as it implies that one is somehow engaging in deception.
Perceivedsex/gender: What sex/gender others generally see you as.
Standardsof care: Formerly known as the Harry Benjamin Standards of Care (HBSOC), the snappily renamed World Professional Association for Transgender Health Standards of Care (WPATH SOC) are the most widespread set of standards and guidelines used by professionals for the medical and mental health treatment of transsexuals.
Stealth:Living as your gender without telling people you are trans*.
Subconscioussex: What physical sex you instinctively feel your body should be.
Trans*:An umbrella term for transgender, transsexual, transfeminine, etc, people.
Trans*ism:An umbrella term for all types of the things that make people trans*: transsexuality, transgenderism, genderqueer, etc.
Transgender:See trans*. ‘Transgender’ is about gender identity and gender expression, not sexual orientation (which may be heterosexual, gay, lesbian, or bisexual).
Transition:The act(s) of changing from one sex to the other, and/or the act(s) of changing one’s physical body and/or appearance as part of a sex/gender change. For many trans people, transition is not a single discrete event, but a gradual set of changes over a period of time. What constitutes “transitioning” differs among trans people: it may be medical, cosmetic, social and/or legal.
Transsexual:A person whose subconscious sex and assigned/biological sex are incongruent (not aligned). Not all transsexuals have the same level of gender dissonance or need the same things (eg. hormones, surgery) to cope with it.
Trans-misogyny:Sexism that specifically targets those on the trans female/trans feminine spectrums. It arises from an interaction between oppositional sexism and traditional sexism. Trans-misogyny is why trans women are more regularly demonised and ridiculed than trans men, and why trans women face certain forms of sexualisation and misogyny that are rarely, if ever, applied to non-trans women.
Transphobia:The irrational fear and consequent hatred of trans* people.
Transvestite:See cross-dresser.
Ungendering:An attempt to invalidate a trans person’s gender by using cissexual privilege to identify incongruities and discrepancies in their gendered appearance that would normally be overlooked or dismissed if they were presumed to be cissexual.
Woman-born-woman:A cis* woman. This term may or may not imply that the person identifying as ‘WBW’ holds certain biocentrist essentialist views.(via ratsandcandy666)